Today is Valentines Day. How did that happen?
I sorda forgot. I remembered two weeks ago that it was coming, and then I forgot.
Which meant that I forgot to make my kids valentines gifts & cards.
I forgot to make my Sweet Man anything lovely.
I forgot to bake a batch of sugar cookies for my friends, my co-workers, the girls we carpool with…
This whole month I only put up one decoration in the whole house ( but aren’t they cute? They are my Daddy’s valentines from when he was a little boy-isn’t that great??)
I meant to get the box down from the attic with all our other decorations, but somehow we never did.
I meant to make handmade valentines projects that I found on Pinterest ( I even wrote a whole article about for At Home!) but I never did.
Instead my head has been stuck in house buying/selling land.
Instead of crafting and baking my heart out, I spent the whole weekend painting the kitchen and kitchen cabinets. (We are taking our house off the market briefly to get some interior painting done and then we will “re-launch” be prepared for before & afters soon!)
Instead of thinking sweet thoughts of love about my Sweet Man, I have been thinking things like “this better be worth it” as I squeeze into tight spaces behind the appliances to paint trim that will never again see the light of day.
Instead of making adorable & punny cards for my kids parties I very gratefully accepted an opened bag of conversation heart candy and Angry Birds tear -n-fold cards from a good friend who had extra to spare and sent those with my kids unabashedly this morning.
For someone who is writing a book on creating traditions through cooking and crafting I am a lousy example this year. But this is real life people. Sometimes this is how the cookie crumbles. Even heart shaped ones.
At first I was feeling lowly about all this. About my loser-mom status in the V-Day department. About not being able to do all I had hoped to do. But then something grabbed ahold of me. Common Sense and Grateful Heart gave me a quick swift kick in the pants.Was I really going to be defeated by Pinterest and Martha and my own ideal-expectations for the day? I wondered Or could I make-do and make-lovely instead? I decided then and there that despite my lack of originality creativity or I was not going to completely fold, there was still time to salvage the day. So I came up with a plan. Tonight I will cook a frozen lasagna because it is Wylie’s favorite and there is no time to make one from scratch in a kitchen still half-torn apart. The boys will get to drink Sweet Tea for dinner – a rare treat – and there will be slice and bake cookies in honor of Miles’ sweet tooth. I will throw together a fresh salad for my sweet man who tirelessly painted the hallway last night while I was off having dinner with friends and we will all picnic on a blanket in the living room, under the banner of my daddy’s cards and watch Castle on the DVR.
Homemade or store bought, I am pretty sure there are worse ways to celebrate this day, than surrounded by my 3 favorite boys, in our warn, dry and safe home, eating hot yummy food.
I hope whatever the day brings you, you are able to find a way to make-do and make-lovely too, even in the small, simple and perhaps even store-bought.
Happy Valentines Day friends!
Much love to you all.